You might think that you're not so great, and maybe you're right.
Maybe you're not noble prize-level competent, but you're not bad either.

You just have a backlog of unsolved problems or an accumulation of them in your life.
So, it might look like your life is not going in the most desirable direction. Here comes anxiety or FOMO, or just dissatisfaction with how your life is going.

The solution is to pick one of the unsolved problems in your life (perhaps a trivial one), set a goal in line with it, and attempt to REALLY solve it.

Don't give up too soon because that's why you have a backlog of them in the first place!

You'll either solve them or you'll discover something new about the problem or yourself.

You will come to an enlightenment of how badass you are and all the abilities domiciled in you.
So... here comes confidence, competence, positive emotions, and growth!

Then, pick the next difficult problem.

Aloha, my friend

B.